More and more friends are getting married. It’s always a shocker when you always knew that friend as single and you didn’t know they found someone and all of a sudden you hear a marriage announcement. And when you dig deeper and find that they only dated for a year – another shocker. I guess it’s hard to believe I’m 30 this year – that everyone around me wants to settle down which speeds up the process of the marital vows.

 

It’s great that they find love. It’s not so great that their main objective is to settle down and they are in a hurry to get married. My standards is always 3 years – for any age. But now I guess I can understand why people can get married so soon. These people love each other and they want to stand time with each other asap.   How romantic.  =)

 

No wonder that older people can understand more things. They go through different feelings and emotions at every stage, 20’s, 30’s, 40’s….they know what it’s like to age and mature. The way of thinking is always different every 5 to 10 years. What a relevation. It’s good to just sit down and think through life in a philosophical way. People say age does not matter – that’s because deep down they still wish they are young, and they think they are young. As long as you live a good and fulfilled life, age does not matter.