Wednesday, September 30, 2009

Heidi's First Car

I know that my decision of buying a car happened 3 weeks ago. But with my HK relatives coming, I had to take the advantage of doing it while they are here. And while they are here, might as well get it earlier so we have a car to go outside the city.

 

I brought up the proposal of buying a car the next day after they arrived. They agreed that it’s the right time – because I’ve saved some money, I’m more matured, and “everyone needs a car in America”. Mainly the reason is that I don’t need to use anyone buy my own money to buy the car.

 

So my 1st choice of car is a Honda hybrid Insight 2010. It’s compact, futuristic looking, got nice colors, cheap, and it saves gas and the environment. But they immediately think that hybrids are not powerful enough to fit 4 people and some heavy things in the car. They immediately think of it as a family car, that I bought it for family usage primarily. It’s totally not what I had in mind – it’s a personal car that I use it for grocery shopping, for fitting me and my aunt in the car (that’s why I’m paying for it!).

 

So I was disappointed or upset for a day that I have to look all over again. And then my aunt upset me further by telling me Honda is good, just pick cars from Honda. We went to Herb Chambers the next day to look at Hondas and they liked the CR-V – because of the trunk size. The car was bigger than I thought I would drive. I started to freak out, and wished that I had bought the 2nd hand car from Tiff instead, for $14,000. From the whole showroom I didn’t see anything that I would have died for. But my family’s preference influenced me, and I turned to the Accord because that’s the next best thing there. They are both in the 25k’s. And I figure that I might as well add in the navigation if I want the CR-V because there’s a camera in the back so that put me more at ease with backing up in a bigger car.

 

I had to immediately transfer at least 20k to my account because my family suggested that they lend me money to save on interests. But I didn’t want to owe them anything so I said no, if I had to pay in full, I would use my money. My original budget of 23k from the hybrid is turning into $28 K CR-V – all thanks to my family.

 

We went home and my grandfather told my HK aunt and uncle that he had put $6000 in my bank acct as in a “safe deposit” in case something comes up. Now he said he wants to use that $6000 towards my car. Great. Now they feel that they have a part in my soon to be obsession. Can I reject that offer? Not really….what can I say? That I don’t want your contribution of $6000? but it’s already in my account...

 

So during the next 2 days I had been gathering all the info from Jason on the process of buying cars and reading up on negotiating. He told me to start off by calling dealerships or getting internet quotes. I searched for the nearest 5 Honda dealerships and started to gather quotes from them. And I slowly recognized the patterns of how they try to get information from you and use it to their advantage. I learned what to say and what not to say to them to make them “less tricky”. Like if you tell them you are paying in full, they will give you a higher quote thinking you have money. No matter how you bargain later, you would just bargain from that quote down. If you tell them that you have visited other dealers, they might ask you for your lowest quote and try to match that. I told them my lowest quote was from Boch (known to be the lowest in the industry), they immediately said “why didn’t you buy it from them?” One dealer even told me that they cannot match the quote from Boch.

 

Things I did in the last 2 days (Monday and Tuesday):

 

-          found dealerships and called them to get quotes

-          get insurance quotes from Metlife and Liberty Mutual

-          asked questions about the process of getting the car in the dealership

-          searched for car buying tips www.carbuyingtips.com

-          looked up and learn different kind of fees that the dealership may add in that you don’t have to pay

-          trying to think of ways to bargain with the dealer, and knowing what or what not to say

-          transferring money from banks and making sure I have enough to pay in full

 

Things that I need to do this week:

 

-          bought car insurance – got payments of $94 per month

-          need to go to Liberty Mutual to pick up the Proof of Insurance

-          Bring proof of insurance to the dealership on Friday

-          Pick up the car at 4pm on Friday

-          Receive license plate and inspection sticker

-          Inspect the car myself

-          Make sure what parts are not covered by my extended warranty

-          Apply for a Resident parking permit

 

 

So I still haven’t entail the whole negotiating process yet. We decided to go to Herb Chambers on Tuesday because it’s the end of the month and Honda has a $500 rebate before 9/30. We already knew what Boch quoted us, $26,600 on top of the $500 rebate. So if we want to save us a trip to Norwood, we might as well stop by Herb Chambers to see if they can give us anything close to that $26,600. When I had called on Monday, Herb Chambers told me their quote is $27,050 including destination fee. This quote is the 2nd best quote I got out of my 5 dealerships. So first I gave them my offer of $26,000. And they kind of laughed and said that their $27,050 is already a very low offer. The manager came to show us his book of all his invoice numbers, of $27,350. Of course we all know it’s not true. So I gave in and told them $26,500. They said no, this is below their invoice price. We were all getting up to leave this place and said we were going to Boch Honda. But my uncle didn’t really want to go to Boch so he said, show the manager $26,500 - the manager said no to $26,500.

 

On a side note, the sales lady asked me all kinds of questions like what I want on the car. Then asked me how I’m going to pay for it. I really didn’t want to tell them I’m paying in full, because I knew there’s a disadvantage. Telling them I’m paying in full means I have money. So I said that’s irrelevant and she’s like of course that’s relevant, we need to know later. So I told them I’m not sure, so in the end I told her I’m paying in full.

 

So there, they saw our weakness. When the manager said no, we raised the question that Boch can save us even more money and we’re going there instead because they have the rebate. My uncle asked the sales woman to show the manager our number of $26,500 again and this time the manager said yes. We all felt very good about the bargain because it is below the Boch quote. But now that I think about it, they did that to make us think that we bargained really well. All these people are tricky! But I guess in the end we only got around $3,300 off the MSRP price. I can’t say we got ripped off but I’m sure we could have gotten a better price going to Boch. I tried to get them to throw in the floor mats. But I asked after we agreed on the price so of course they won’t give it to me anymore. Damn!

 

On picking the car color. I picked a light blue color that I like, and she came back saying that the blue one has 250 miles on it, because they were driving it from the CT dealership to swap cars. I was actually fine with it but my family wanted BRAND NEW car so we had to go with the next preferable color – Tango Red. They didn’t have a tango red in the dealership but I saw one this morning, it’s actually a very very nice color. I was disappointed with the light blue yesterday but now I am satisfied with the color.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Monday, September 28, 2009

Got back to work first thing from furlough was that our company was
acquired by Xerox - as soon as I stepped into the office. It was
exciting because it signifies new hope. But my boss is also optimistic
about our division. What if they don't want unclaimed property
business? I have a hunch that we are fine.

Things are turning better - for my sake at least. Never gone thru an
acquisition during employment before. This will be fun.

Things will still run the way they are at least until march 2010.
Xerox has no time to pay attention to us yet.

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Saturday, September 26, 2009

I wanna share the news that I'm getting the Honda CRV (pretty much a
SUV). My experience of getting what I wanted was not that pleasant.
First they don't agree with the hybrid, saying that it doesn't have
enough power to hold 4 passengers.

Then my aunt wanted Honda only for the car, rejecting all other
(affordable) brands.

Today we went into herb chambers to look at Honda cars, and we liked
the Accord and the CRV. They are both in the mid 20k range. They are
thinking in the perspective of getting a family car, that I will drive
them in the future (once a year) - so they want a bigger car. So now
the CRV is in the 28k's and Accord is 25k - they keep thinking for a
few thousand dollars more we can get a better car.

We are leaning towards the CRV cuz it's bigger and better. But now I
am forced to shell out 10k more than my budget. My grandpa gave me
$6000 for the car. I guess I have not much say in this.

I'm not that happy that I'm paying almost 28k for a car with
navigation. It's too expensive for a newbie like me. And they say they
wanna pay in full becuz my aunts cd acct is only paying 2.4% rate and
the financing we asked is 2.9%.


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Thursday, September 17, 2009

traumatic experience

I've had a traumatic experience in 5th grade. I was I'm shock for 5
days after it happened and that 5 days had been dazy. I didn't know
what I was doing and my mind just ran that scene over and over again.
After that I tried to push it away and didn't want to remember what
happen. Usually if it's something scary, memorble, you would remember
it forever. But this...I don't remember if it happened once or twice
or the details. It was bad.

I had been sexually assaulted in 5th grade. At the back entrance of my
grandmother's apartment.

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Monday, September 14, 2009

Poor Taylor. I hate Kayne West!!!


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Sunday, September 13, 2009

Still hasn't come. She called me at 1:55 and told me she's at Mass
Ave. Now I remember why Yee and everyone else disliked her so much.
It's hard to like a person who is late every freaking time.


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Late!

Gosh, I know she's always late, that's why I called her to change the
meeting time to 30 minutes later. But it turns out I was 25 minutes
early from our changed time. I've been waiting for 40 minutes now.
She's now 15 minutes late. I swear next time I meet her I'm gonna give
her a fake time!

Friday, September 11, 2009

Orientation starts at 10 am tomorrow and I will be volunteering till
12. Nothing to do afterwards. Maybe I should volunteer another hour if
I'm not too tired. I kind of want to shop around afterwards but it
would be too early for me to go home. I guess I'll go with whatever I
want to do tomorrow.

I already rehearsed what I should say to the patient. I practiced my
gentlest voice. If I almost whisper, my voice is actually very gentle.
But if I talk fom my diaphragm, hahaha.....

1 week until furlough. I'm looking forward to it. Others already got
hit with their 50% cut paychecks. But today we got our bonus check
from 2 quarters ago. I guess they want to use it to compensate for our
cut. Hits 2 birds with one stone. So sneaky.

Been looking at cars. I like the look of the Honda Insight hybrid -
but Tiff said it looks bad and strange...how dare. So I said that
Camrys look ugly. I think that's what she got.

So the first half of the day i was so sure about this car, or getting
a car for a fact. But seeing that hybrids are no that popular makes me
think twice, or my family would be against hybrids, thinking it's
unsafe to depend on battery. So the second half of the day I spent to
look at regular cars, but the ones under 20,000 look bad and the ones
that look good are over 25,000. Now I don't even know if:

1) If I would be approved to get a car
2) if they let me buy a car, will they let me pick my own car?
3) they might raise certain issues like maintenance and stuff for the
hybrid, so I won't get to get my car

I actually need to take a real look at the Insight 2010 first, and
maybe I will change my mind.

I just sold my stocks to get some capital. Yay...

Thursday, September 3, 2009

Feeling restless. It's like there's so much I need to do but I have no
motivation to do them. My to-do list is pretty long. Everyday I go
through my to-do list, but everyday my to-do list never diminish.

Restless...restless...restless

So my ex-prom date decided to have a little wedding reception in
Boston, after posting the wedding pictures from Vietnam. Nice for him
to announce it afterwards when everybody got mad at him already. Such
an idiot.

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Imbalance

I notice that when I’m into something, I stop everything I’m doing and get irritated when I get interruptions. I don’t like this. I’m in such a hurry to finish my books. Now I’m done – now what? I have to catch up to my work. Finishing the books leave me an empty feeling, sort of like not wanting it to end, like those long dramas. Keep expecting and wanting more. Everything that I was committed to had been thrown out. There’s such an imbalance to my life…..it takes time bringing it back and bring it back to the equilibrium.