Marriage

I don't know what lily's future in-laws are thinking. Everyone has his own values - how dare they give him only 8 bucks for his budget to buy clothes per month but give him much more on restaurants just because his family goes out for dinner more often?

And to say that they don't care about the wedding. I can't imagine any parents wouldn't care, unless they really hate Lily.

 

Although she was spending her bf's money like there's no tomorrow, she doesn't deserve having her background checked for credit by her bf and in-laws. That just doesn't show any respect for the family. The in-laws were saying they've been here so long that they forgot the Chinese tradition for the wedding.

 

The point is – you need to have respect for both sides. You cannot just say I don’t know any Chinese tradition and then not do it. You have to compromise to make both sides happy – because this is a wedding. You do this for joy, not for torture.

 

The worse thing to lose is your dignity. This is a hard battle. Because if she backs out of the marriage they’re going to think she’s in for the money. If she doesn’t, then there’s going to be more drama. Well she started everything wrong in the relationship. I guess it’s Karma.