Chinese new year is coming. I sort of had a fight with my mom in sept last year. Should I call her for new year?

I'm a person who's out of sight, out of mind. And if I don't want to be upset, I just don't think about it. Or in this case, not call so I don't have to deal with it.

Is this a good way to release? I would say yes temporarily, but it won't solve the problem. Down the line if something happens again, the same thing will happen until one day I can't take it anymore.

I know this is bad...but I get so upset that the only way for me to feel better is to stop thinking about it and totally ignore my problems. At work it's similar too. If I encounter a problem I'd just put it off until it's an absolute must that I have to deal with it. I can put it off for as long as a year and when someone finally inquires about it, I had to gather a lot of courage to face it again.


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